ksquared
"O Captain, My Captain"
That can be instilled with training. If anyone came after my wife or myself, I'd use it with no hesitation and let the chips fall where they may.I do know that if you pull one, you have to be prepared to use it, and I'm not sure I would.
We have a saying here: "Better to be tried by [a jury of] 12 than to be carried by 6 [pallbearers]." I believe that with all my heart.