Welcome from Australia Shane
@KnightRider ......
Sorry to hear about your wife

The R3's older then 2010 will be known as standards (like the 2004 your looking at) and the later ones are Roadsters and have foot controls closer to the rider and ABS Braking. Also the bikes made after 2008 have upgraded transmissions etc. Which ever way you go you and your wife will love it. Also something to consider - IF the headlight look a little dull its due to the ignition wiring not being up to scratch and your ignition switch may be about to FAIL - costing $100's and possibly stranding you in the middle of wherever....