goliath, If you click on the link in my first post in this thread, you will find a very good "how to" article with diagrams. The second posts link has everything you will need for the job, even premade wiring harnesses. Good luck, It's really very easy.
I ordered teh one from beaverdam, teh premeade but it did nto come with directions and reviewed the article. i am confused as to teh heavy black wire that appears to got to the battery. where does teh other end go" Also teh tow wires to the relay (black and red) I know i am probably making this harder than needs to be, but those three are confusing me.
The red wire is your switched power lead and is terminated on the positive side of the distribution block. The black wire from the relay goes to the negative side of the block.
Good to hear it worked out for you goliath, welcome to the best Rocket forum in the world. The captains here are some of the finest bikers you will ever meet, from many different countries. We seem to share the same values in addition to the same interests.