Let me give you one guess with a few hints
#1 he is the best looking guy on the site
#2 has a lovely picture with your wife in it
#3 speaks real English not like them mericans
Well that's the biggest hurdle overcome as I now have been given blessings from the 'Boss' to attend. I finally plucked up the courage to 'fess up to my plans and am now waiting to see how much this is going to cost!!