lost my big brother:(

[cane corso]

Thanks so much every one for the kind words.
Feel for those that have lost a friend or a love one or a familey member it hurts, my dad has lost 4 brothers from a heart attack and 1 sister from a stroke, so now loosing one of his sons and hes a mess and my mom is not takeing it well so now I'm worried about my parents.
Its true you just don't know when your time is and its sad to see people you love go so soon, Familey get to gethers is going to be tough now

To rocket, your close I'm in Richmond Hill we should meet some were that was my brothers favorite ride, moved back to Toronto from Utah to spend time with my familey , parents are getting old and this summer was looking forward to go ridding with by brother and this happens.

 

[Dunnspeed]

So sorry to hear about your loss. I know words can't take the suck away but know that we are all thinking about you. It's the ones left behind that have all the crap to deal with and dealing with it by talking with friends and family is the best way.

 

[Binnsy]

My condolences buddy.

I too have lost family and found that if I took an item of theirs with me on rides it sorta reminded me of them and I felt they were with me on the ride... When my Dad died I wore his ring every time I went out, not much but it helped.

Regards.....Binnsy

 

[Gothlander]

Sorry to hear of your loss, it's never easy but think of the good times it helps a little.

 

[JoseyR3Wales]

I am sorry for your loss. It is quite a bit more difficult to handle the loss of a close sibling than parents, aunts, uncles and so on. It brings in to question your own mortality more so than any other event can. I pray for you and your family and for your peace.

 

[cane corso]

You guys are my extended familey and are always there when I need you guys the most goods time and the bad, I just wish I got to meet every one of you got to talk on the phone with a few that helped me out on my Rocket and got to ride with a few

Its funny my dad always wanted us to marry a Italian woman and my Brother married a German and I married a Chinees but my dad still got to love them.
And my dad always taught us that you barrie something you love and burn what you don't want and hide.
Well my brother wanted to be cream matted my dad was so upset, but that was his wish, and I want to be barried because I beleave the same as my dad, wife wants to be cream mated I told her I hope I go first because I don't think I could burn her
Intereest to here who you guys married and whats your thought?
so many different views in lifes.

 

[saboteur]

My friend who recently passed was cremated, and our riding group will be burying those ashes in June, after a three hour ride east. He'll be taking his last ride on his wife's bike, strapped to the pillion. He lived an interesting life, and the packed church was filled with the various groups he belonged to, law enforcement, martial arts, military, educators, and bikers. Quite the mix.

I had my wife's ashes in a friend's hand thrown pottery, in the dining room, for a couple years before finally committing them to the earth. It was hard letting go. Before that we scattered most of the ashes around the farm... lawns, pastures, forest, and the flower and vegetable gardens... If she hadn't passed in winter I may have done differently.

I believe that spark of life, whatever it is that make us who we are, is finite, like a candle vanishing. The body just a vessel for that energy, so as long as we treat it with dignity and honor, it's all good.

 

[cane corso]

my big brother

Saboteur, I tear came down my eyes yes haveing a good friend that pases or a sister or brother or parents passes away would be hard to deal with.
But haveing your wife pass away some one you hope to grow old with, shakes me up a lot ,sorry for your loss.
But if I lost my wife I would be a mess I don't even like to think about that I break down all the time, I feel you pain.
Thanks for sharring I think talking about my loss of my brother really helps, I just wish I would of talk to you guys earlyer but I was just too up set.
Thanks

 

[xhdskip]

Sorry for your lose Cane.
Rest assured though, there IS a God.
We may not know His plan, but we know His intentions for us.
I sincerely hope your brother knew Him as well.
I know this lose is hard on you, but put his family (wife and kids)
hurt before your own and comfort them to the best of your ability.
They need your strength right now.
Prayers for ALL the family.
skip

 

[TheKid]

Sorry for your loss. Well put Binnsy. You will never forget him, and I'm sure that you know that. Just try your best to live with what life gives us. Easy for me to say, I know, but take something with you on a ride. Just a way to help.
Take care
Kid