It's all about perspective my friends

My condolences...I have few riding buddies and losing any of them would be hard to deal with. I had a buddy take a really bad spill while we were on a ride last year, he busted 5 ribs and punctured a lung. He's doing OK now, but is really gun-shy about riding, he's taken one short ride with me since he healed up, I think he enjoyed it but was really nervous the entire time. I can't seem to get him back on the horse anymore and his bike has just been collecting dust. Pretty sure his riding days are over. I've been very blessed and fortunate to never have had a wreck in over 30 years of riding, I've had some close calls and plenty of seat puckering moments though. Any rider must accept the risk that no matter how careful or safe they are, sh!t can still happen. Life is terminal and no one will survive it, so might as well enjoy it while you can. "Every man dies, but not every man truly lives."
 
Boog, thanks for sharing that. I think that we all get submerged by our own 'issues' and forget that we are still alive and (generally) in one piece. So make the most of what we've got and don't stress over what we haven't got.
 

Human nature takes on many forms when we consider the old saying that once bitten, twice shy. I figured I would need to fight those demons for awhile after crashing my VMAX in 2008. But the desire to be in the wind again overcame it for me.
Then when I hit the deer on the FZ1 in 2010,all of my non-riding friends and family said the same thing; "Guess you are done with motorcycles now". But once more, the wind's call is irresistible. Getting back on after two violent get offs was not hard for me. I did have the extra sensitive adrenalin rush threshold, but find that I live for that most days when something pops up.
I hope your friend can overcome those demons and gets back into the wind. But if not, he’s still your buddy. I have a couple of friends who quit riding due to fear and they seem to hang their heads whenever bikes come up in conversation, they may come back to the fold yet…
 
Had numerous scrapes and bruises riding and racing dirt bikes as a kid, but only one high speed dismount when I was about 28 or so. I must say it gave me pause for a while what with young kids and all, but it didn't keep me off a bike forever. It did make me a much better and safer rider though...wasn't nearly as likely to throw caution to the wind and solve every riding challenge with a twist of the wrist after that.