Welcome to the forum Neil .
Yep unfortunately TC I don't even get to do that much these days . Most of my riding is commuting to work . I do a packrats ride once a month but can't afford to do much more than that on a single income with three dependents a mortgage and two vehicles to register and maintain. Mrs can't work cos she has to stay home and look after my youngest daughter who suffers from nethertons syndrome so the wallet just doesn't allow it . Don't get me wrong I'm not complaining just hope no one thinks I don't want to ride with them or anything I just can't afford to get out anymore than I already do without suffering financially for it .
Like i said mate , no need to apologise. Respect that you look after your family. I was in much the same position when my daughters were dependant on me. They are both now married ... no mortage ... i'm free man .