The bottom line, Mr. Duke, is that you should get yourself to a number of dealerships or stores and try a bunch of these recommended helmets on. Relying on others' subjective opinions is a little bit crazy, since it's yours and your wife's heads you are looking to protect, not anyone else's. Again, read the link to the webbikeworld review I posted for the Bell Star (the only premium helmet in their lineup, to my knowledge). It is specially designed to accommodate speakers.