I love the headers on the CARPENTER SYSTEM. I would really like to stay 3-2. I might consider the Remus Slip On. They already come in black. Then would want a cross-over "Y" pipe (and eliminate the collection chamber)...don't see those available anymore either.
Another option is Viking Exhaust - http://www.vikingexhaust.com/ Paul Bryant, the owner, is an RIII rider. I don't think his pipes are on his website yet, but if you email him then I'm sure he will fill you in on the details. He does a 3-1-2 system as well. Here are a couple of pics.
Daymakers! Bought them online from Harley dealership. They are straight plug in. Bright as hell. There are plenty of threads on this site dealing with there strong points and also weak points like amount of light when bike is leaning into a turn. Also about $640 for the pair.
Welcome, I also have the X and did consider changing out the pipes. Have decided to install the TORS instead and keep the original limited edition look. Each to there own.